I enjoy pop music though I’m more of a 90s girl myself. There’s plenty of crappy-but-catchy pop music out there today and I’m pretty tolerant of most songs I hear on the air these days. Songs like “My Humps” by the Black Eyed Peas are hilarious! I’m still uncertain whether I think musicians have the duty to be role models to the kiddies or not and usually I’m pretty apathetic (though often accompanied by a bit of eye-rolling) to the over-sexed music clips showcasing the likes of the Pussycat Dolls, Beyonce etc.

And then a few days ago I saw the videoclip the the song “Girlfriend” by Avril Lavigne. Because the clip is SO AMAZING, it warrants embedding into this very entry:

This clip POSITIVELY portrays:

  • Unprovoked violence
  • Stealing someone’s boyfriend
  • Being a “motherfucking princess” (that comes straight from the lyrics!)
  • Bullying

What the hell is wrong with you, Avril Lavigne? You’re a grown woman, OLDER THAN ME, and THAT’S what you come up with?? Oh yes, let’s all laugh along with her at that nerdy (you can tell by the glasses!) redhead! Let’s push said “nerd” around and launch a golfball at her head! Let’s be amazed that she must be a FUCKING PSYCHIC with her “knowledge” when a man (who’s already in a seemingly smooth relationship) likes her! Let’s revel in her “princess” behaviour when she and her lackeys brutishly shove people out of the way so she can use the bathroom mirror (to draw on it!)! Because I know that’s acceptable behaviour!

I’m going to look pass the fact that this is a 22 year old woman dressed up as a punky 14 year old. What annoys me is the way she plays up bad behaviour to be a good thing. I annoys me how she packages such terrible behaviours with a sugary “princess” label. What is this, a precursor to being a “bitch”? That’s not “confidence”, that’s plain old douchebaggyness. But then again, I personally have a deep dislike for the Bitch = Good Thing mentality.